The presence of friends and family celebrating Christina’s life will help ease the burden of our loss, and her absence on such a sorrowful occasion.
Christina Alexandrina White, lovingly referred to as (mum) by her children and “Baby” by her mother and siblings.
Born to Walter Reginald and Ruby White of Plantation Moor Park in the country of Guyana, South America mummy haled from the region Mahaica-Berbice.
Mum’s parents were Rice and Livestock Farmers. Mum and her siblings had to assist their parents in tending to the farm whilst attending school.
Mum was the 3rd of 5 children, the eldest Sammy, Valery, Christina (Mum/Baby), Walter, and Iris. Mum is survived by her eldest and youngest sisters Valery and Iris respectively.
Mum took care of the ducklings and the chickens, even washing the ducklings before putting them to sleep! Mum also had a pet goat she was so attached to, wanting it to live in the house. In fact, mum snuck the goat into the house which was frowned upon given the goat wasn’t house trained, and the inevitable bathroom accident took place on mums’ bed! Mum was so devoted to the animals and bird’s the family were convinced she would have become a vet.
Instead of becoming a vet, mum at a young age fulfilled her aspiration of becoming a nurse. Having completed her secondary education, left Guyana to further her nursing qualifications by joining her older sister Valery (Midwife) in England, Salisbury, Wiltshire.
As a qualified nurse Mum took pride in her vocation and worked tirelessly for her patients, mum would always return home with gifts in many forms from those whom she cared for such was the need to express their gratitude. Mum was loved by her work colleagues, and everyone she came into contact with.
Mother married our dad Edric George Herman Harry 1964. Father passed away at the tender age of 49, on the birthday of our beloved brother Clifford. widowing mum September of 1983. Mother never re-married.
Mother had six children, Claudette, Carol, Christopher, Clifford Clyde and Charles. Our names beginning with the letter ‘C’ was no coincidence. One can imagine the unforeseen challenge and confusion, when we became of age receiving mail, C. Harry could apply to a potential 7 family members.
Mother has 15 grandchildren: Ruby, Robyn and Leah; children of Claudette. Arkel, Asha and Iman; children of Carol. Bianca, C’iar, Rhia. Cruz, Cydney and Kyro; children of Chris. Mya, daughter of Clyde. Lashaune, Aiyarna and Karlo; children of Charles and two Great Grandchildren. Jahmya and Jahsiah, children; of Lashaune
Mum’s passing (Feb 7th) fell 10 years (6th February 2011) and a matter of hours after the anniversary of the passing of our beloved brother Clifford, and a day before her youngest son’s birthday (Feb 8th) Charles, and just 18 months (August, 19th 2019) after the passing of our beloved sister Carol, a loss too many for a mother to endure.
Both our parents would not have known it at the time but both inherited sickle cell trait. There is a 25% chance that any child conceived may have sickle cell disorder (Anemia) and 50% chance they will have the trait. Clifford and Carol both suffered from Sickle Cell Anemia a lifelong blood disorder. A condition in which there aren’t enough healthy red blood cells to carry adequate oxygen throughout the body, causing severe pain. Episodes both children had to withstand that impacts the life expectancy from 42-47 years. Clifford passed at the age of 39 and Carol aged 51.
Faith in our heavenly father was always at the forefront of our Mothers mind, teaching us to always be grateful humble and giving to others. The bible, and daily readings were mothers mind body and spirit. Mum would often cite bible verses as means of teaching us individually a lesson at that point in time or instance.
Our mother didn’t have it easy being a nurse, juggling the demands of her first 3 children just 13 months apart. Yet, rarely complained at the unenviable task. Mum always made time for us and others – be it family, neighbours, friends who came to visit mum for a chat.
Mum was a vibrant soul who lived and worked for her children, and gave tirelessly to others.
Mum despised waste and growing up, wasn’t a fan of pets though full of compassion. Often mum came home with patients untouched meals that would otherwise be disposed of, to feed the untamed cats of the neighbourhood, dishevelled cats not familiar with human contact would cry with anticipation, making unwelcomed contact with mum whist she lay out a feast of roast beef and gravy with trimmings.
We recollect fond memories as children of mum watching 70’s T.V. comedy programmes, Candid Camera, Mind, your Language and Carry or Films that caused mum to cry tears of laughter, we loved to see mummy chuckle, truly a sight for sore eyes.
Mummy used to love listening to music whilst she did her chores, Elvis Presley, Buddy Holly, Jonny Cash were a few of her favourites that come to mind. Mummy was so kind hearted she found it difficult to scold us when we were mischievous as children, her form of chastisement was to sit us down and listen to the lyrics played on the gramophone of “No Charge” by Tammy Wynette in the hope the message in the song would resonate with her children.
After 40 years of service mummy retired from nursing and took pleasure in taking care of her grandchildren and invaluable source of support for those of us returning to work.
It was an honour and pleasure when Carol and Claudette were able to take our mother on vacations to experience warm climates other than her native Guyana. Jamaica, Dominican Republic, St Lucia to name a few. Carol would put mummy through her paces by taking her on countless excursions allowing her to experience all of God’s beautiful creations, scenery, wildlife food and of course people. Mother was scared of heights, though to our astonishment mum won a bet with Claudette that she’d go paragliding over the Caribbean Sea at Negril. An amazing and tranquil experience that mum enjoyed.
Mum your absence creates a huge void in the lives of those of us you have left behind.
We continue on our journey in this life accepting the things we cannot change and change the things we can.
We draw comfort knowing you are in the hands of our heavenly father and give God thanks having been blessed with you as our Mother. We love you so much and will miss you more than words can say.
We invite you to join us to celebrate the life of Christina Alexandrina White-Harry
Funeral
Date: 15/03/2021Additional Info:
Places at the funeral are restricted due to CV19 and most have been allocated. Please do not attend the funeral without prior arrangement with the immediate family The Funeral will be streamed live from this site on Monday 15th March at 11.00AM and an HD recording of the burial at Gunnersbury Cemetery will be posted onto this Memorial site the same day
My deepest condolences to the family. I hope the legacy of your loved helps to provide peace in this very difficult time.
Mum was a fantastic lady who always made me feel welcome when I entered her home please accept our condolences on behalf of the Brown family. She will be deeply missed.
Mrs Harry was a Rockstar of her generation, always a woman who welcomed you in her home, and enticed you with her tasty curry and roti. Mrs Harry was a warm, loving, kind & softly spoken, wonderful and powerful woman both in sprite and soul. After losing 2 of her children Cliford and Carol…she carried on and tried to remain very strong through the tough times, of heart break and emotional pain. She loved her childen and granchildren who gave her the strength to carry on. She fought a good fight. May she rise in power and rest in eternal peace. My sincerest condolences to all the family, Mum was so loved and will be dearly missed❤♀️
My condolences to the whole family. God bless you all at this difficult time.Mrs Harry was an amazing lady. Always kind, caring, loving and welcoming. It was a pleasure knowing you and spending time with you. My memories of you will always be fond ones. I will miss you but you will never be forgotten. Those we love don’t go away they walk beside us every day. Unseen, unheard but always near still loved, still missed and very dear. May you rest in everlasting and eternal peace. Xx
The Matriarch of a kind and loving family that will be greatly missed by all that knew her. Keep your chin up all family members and wishing you all the best.
Having known Mrs Harry for many many years, I had developed a very close relationship with her.
She was a hard-working, peaceful, soft spoken, calm, inspirational, and encouraging woman.
In addition to her fine qualities, she was a very dedicated mother and grandmother.
Now that the Cruel hands of death has snatched her away, she will be dearly missed by her family and all who had the honoured privileged of knowing her.
May she rest in peace.
Am amazing Lady whom always had a an amazing warm heart, whom always made me feel welcome, I will miss her wise words. RIP xx
Mrs Harry(mum) always had the warmest smile for me.when ever we would met her first concern was how I was and the rest of my family. One of the most gentle souls I know kind,caring and always putting her family first. You will remain in our hearts forever ✨❤️✨
Dearest Mrs Harry,
Thank you for all your love, warmth care and support over the years. You have been a wonderful Nan to Lashaune.
You were truly beautiful from the inside out and had always brought a smile to all those you made contact with.
You will surely be missed however may you rest in perfect peace in Gods arms until the day we meet again, in our Lord and Savours Heavenly Kingdom.
Always and forever in ours hearts and thoughts, love from Johanna & Family
My condolences to the whole family.
My memory of Mrs Harry was that she was always soft and kind and no matter how much time past between seeing her, she always remembered me and always asked how my family was.
Very giving and kind lady.
Rest in peace.
Karen x
Mrs Harry was a lovely soft spoken lady who always had a welcoming smile. She was a great testament to her beautiful family and will be truly missed. Rest in Eternal Peace Mrs Harry
I can’t claim to have known Mrs Harry extremely well , but what struck me on the occasions i met her was her calmness and serene nature . She always extended such a warm welcome to me anytime i came to house . I am deeply upset by her passing . RIEP MAMA ❤
Mrs Harry what a wonderful and beautiful lady that I will surely miss.Always welcoming and softly spoken, she never ever forgot to ask me how my family was and how I was doing but her presence was always wonderful because of the sincere ness in her. May you sit by the lord and be under his wings Christina Harry. RIP❤️
I have many fond and happy memories of being and growing up around you and your family and will cherish the love,kindness and respect you have always shown me.You will be greatly missed but never forgotten
Mum xx
Softly spoken and Always very welcoming to All whether it was kind words or a plate of food… Sorely missed RIP Mrs Harry…
Only fond & happy memories of Christina. She would always ask after my mum and on occasion made guiness punch for me to sample which was amazing still cant match it. I will miss you greatly and will always think of times spent with Charles, Clifford and Clyde and you close by in the kitchen playing country music. Such a kind hearted amazing mother. R.I.P Christina.
Chris my brother, where do we go from here? All I can say is: Today I am thankful for the memories that brighten the road of grief, they remind me of the love shared and provide a small relief.
When I met your mother I was 14, I could never imagine a time when she would no longer be here. I feel blessed to have spoken with her before she passed, and that memory will last until it’s my turn to leave this mortal earth.
My brother I’m sharing your pain, and I bet we didn’t realise we were making memories, we just knew we were having fun. Keep smiling through the grief. Your mum is an amazing woman and I’m glad I was blessed to have met her.
Nuff love and respect to you and your family
A Great Mothet, A Great Grandmother. The Rock Of A Family That She Lead, Proud & Mightily.
A Beautiful Smile, A Pure Heart, She Will Be Greatly Greatly, & Dearly Missed. May You Rest In Everlasting & Eternal Peace. Edna & Family×
A beautiful lady with a beautiful soul it was such a pleasure to meet you. You will be missed. May you find peace in the lords dwelling. love always xx
Always made me feel welcomed, beautiful and sweet lady, never forgotten. RIP Mums.